My fiancee is a communist. Seriously, she believes in communism (which may say something about the Democratic party given her proclivity to defend them). She's also an atheist. She's one of the most generous hearts I have ever known. In college she spent most of her time dealing with rape victims and she wants to have a charity to help battered women. I suspect there is a libertarian Christian sneaking around in her. We drive by a number of homeless beggars every day. The corner of St. Charles and Louisiana, the overpass of I-90, the turnabout at the end of the Uptown side of St. Charles, etc. The guy with one arm is a regular at the turnabout, the guy with the well fed dog is a regular at Louisiana. I've never seen the guy with one arm not holding liquor when he's not begging. There is a mission near by. When they hand out meals the homeless leave the styrofoam cartons scattered about the underpass, generally not that far from the many trashcans that also litter the underpass. They step into traffic to stop cars to get a dollar and generally make life inconvenient. I would never give any of them a dime, including the new lady who showed up with a baby.
A man who had the good taste to marry a friend of mine recently told a story about his encounter with a homeless man in the wind-swept plains of Lubbock, Texas. His generosity to this person was met with disdain and the inane ramblings of a man who must be unstable (of course, if you tricked me by telling me we were going to the liquor store and you took me home, I'm not sure I would have been as kind). His reward for his kindness was to be told that hypocrites and whores would be the only people to attend his funeral (the crazy guy said preachers and painted ladies, but the translation is what I have said before).
So why do I write about this, you ask. And by you, I mean my mother, the only person who will likely read this, mainly because I have to write these to pay my rent for her basement. I don't want people to give to the beggars. I do want them to give to the missions.
The one armed man uses the money of generous people to buy booze. The man with the impeccably groomed dog is likely a professional. The charity is a litterer. I'll choose the litterer. The truth of homelessness is that the permanent homeless are generally mentally ill. There are also those that prey on the sympathies of others to make a living. I used to work at a place called "The Strip". Before liquor sales were legal in Lubbock, there was a group of stores just outside of the county that sold to all the college students and workers. It was lit up in neon signs, hence the comparison to the Vegas Strip. There were always beggars near the Strip. I remember seeing a local TV news report that followed them home in their $60,000.00 cars. They made a good living at it. John Stossel has also exposed similar practices.
I want to give. I just made a ton of money on a case and the first thing I was trying to figure out was how much I could afford to give to the disabled veterans charity that I try to always give to (I also try to give money to the Republican Party, but that's a pretty hopeless charity).
I say these things because I love the hearts of men that give, but encourage giving to be tempered by intelligence. This is the same reason that we cannot have an effective federal charity (i.e. welfare and unemployment) system. My friend and I can choose where and what is effective. If we make a mistake, we can correct it in the future to make our efforts more effective. My fiancee knows that she can't help the one armed man and she holds other suspect, but wants to help. We all do. We can't throw money at a problem and expect a faceless program to be more effective than we are. What was it Reagan said? Trust but verify?
We are good. As Americans we give more per capita than any other society. But we have to acknowledge effectiveness over emotion. Otherwise you have a one armed man petting a well groomed dog while sharing the bottle of gin you bought them.